Hey Dorothy. We'll definitely to offer more when we see the picks, but since I can picture pretty well the issue you are likely having with your ears, I can offer some advice. Once of the keys as I am sure you found out is getting the curves right. This can often mean some trimming on the inside of the ear so the line it takes matches up with the bucket just right. In most case you might need to help the angle a bit heating the cap and slight bending it to add more curve. Some people use a heat gun and other boiling water to accomplish this. I will tell you I had to do both of these steps on my original bucket. I dipped the ear cap in boiling water for 10-15 seconds and then very slight bend it the direction it need to go. Once the angles are better, you can determine where you might need to trim a little more. Always trim a little at a time. You can always trim more, but you can't put it back (in most cases) Hope that helps. Let's see the pics and we can help with the rest